When I think of porn, I think of sexy women and big penises. Or, if it doesn't involve a big penis, it's a big dildo. There's always some sort of penis involved, real or fake. Women can only get off by penetration it seems like. Of course there is oral sex but it looks like it would do absolutely nothing, or at least it wouldn't cause the explosion of an orgasm that we see in most porn. Moaning does sound good but it is so fake and such a joke. As everyone pretty much knows porn is made mostly for men, gay or straight. Even lesbian porn seems to be marketed mostly for men. It is young, feminine looking women, shaven and long haired, mostly having sex because they want to experiment. Of course experimentation is fine, but when it is portrayed as the only way a woman could have a lesbian experience, and she'll go back to her man after it's done, it's a problem.

Lesbians react to lesbian porn

On TV, lesbians are portrayed kind of the same way: feminine, young, and experimenting. After they are done with that one time fling, they go back to their boyfriend or start dating a new guy. There is that spectrum and women may only have a one time thing with a woman, but again it's a problem when it is the only way we see lesbians: they are sexy and lesbians for men. 

Even in society gays and lesbians cannot be themselves. My mother got married because she thought that was the only thing she could do. Of course she does not regret it because she had me (that's what she says) but it would have been better if she could have always been herself and always been with women from the start. So if lesbians are always portrayed as sexually frustrated women we as a society may not change our views on gays and lesbians.